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Dr. Lane’s Thoughts XXXXV
1. Things that are smooth make no changes to the world around them. Things that do not make changes are forgettable.
People are meant to be remembered. Sometimes it helps to be abrasive or stubborn to create changes in people so that you ‘stick’ with them and, therefore, will be remembered. You should want to impact on the people around you but onlhy in a constructive and useful way.😛
On the other hand, some abrasive people are just that way to be assholes. Fuck them. 💀
2. We should remember that a dog is a good friend because he just likes to be around you. You are his favorite reason for being. Best friends should be like that. We should take turns being each others’ ‘dogs’ 🐶. My dog loves to go from person to person in my home and kissing everyone just because he wants them to know that he loves everything about them.
3. You will never escape gossiping and bullying. The way people are at 12 years old is how they will be forever.
Some people improve as time goes on but their basic structure is there at 12. More money or a better lifestyle may let them express more aspects if their skill set or their persona but, realistically, they are set. already. Get used to it.
Hell is a toxic work environment full of bitchy and manipulative people always spying on you and reporting on you to your boss. Bosses should see these people as a bad influence in the office but they usually see those people as ‘helpful’ and ‘irreplaceable’ . Bosses never see those people as the reason for a high employee turnover.
4. If your friend offers you a ride someplace that you are both going IMMEDIATELY offer $10.
Why?
1) It is cheaper than an UBER or LYFT
2) Owning a car is expensive and every dollar helps.
3) If you ever need a ride again, they will be EAGER to drive you. You have proven to be a cool person and a cool passenger
4) If you always ride and never pay you will be branded as a complete dick and no one will want to drive you anywhere. You are simply not cool enough to give free rides to no matter what your self-esteem affirmation tells you.
5) “Do you remember me?” – so many of my DOT patients come to my office and ask me this question as an opening remark. Honestly, when I have seen you for 30 minutes a year or two ago I do not remember you.
We live in an epidemic of loneliness in this country. We try to fill this loneliness void with Facebook, eating the wrong foods or just too much food, drinking alcohol, perhaps using drugs to numb us and other ways to patch the hole in our souls that would have been filled by the constant interactions with our families and friends.
Without the opportunity to socialize in real situations with the skills we have learned from birth and from growing up with our families and friends we are forced to ask other people who we rarely see a question that really asks “am I alone and am I leaving an impression on other people?”
6) Many professional therapists need psychological help as much as their patients (or even more). This falls to reason: we study in school the things that interest us and psychology majors (who largely go on to careers in therapy) are people interested. personally, in psychology. They want to understand themselves.
I am not talking about psychiatrists as much because that is a specialty in medicine that pays VERY WELL! If a person in medical school wants to make a great deal of money, nothing pays as well as psychology and demands less training; psychiatrists can easily make $3,000/hour and work less than 5 days a week! They bill in 15 minute increments and they no longer talk to patients, just write prescriptions for medications and ask if the patient is suicidal or have suicidal ideation.
The days of a patient on a couch talking about their issues with a psychiatrist who is sitting nearby are long since passed. Nobody does that anymore – just ‘pill them and bill them”.
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